Fetish: stuckage

I’d never heard of this one until today when someone emailed me, and I thought it was so fucking awesome I had to write about it.

Stuck fetishists get turned on by people (especially women) stuck in small places. For instance, a girl stuck in a dog door or a manhole. Judging by the research I’ve done, “stuckers” (as I will now call them) tend to prefer petite, well-endowed women, because the bigger your tits, hips, and ass, the more likely you are to get stuck. The stuck fetish is kind of an offshoot of the “Damsel in Distress” fetish, where people are excited by the idea of a woman in danger, whether it’s imminent (like sinking in quicksand) or something more benign, like being stuck in a dryer. Or the back of a Volkswagen.

Fetish: quicksand fetish

This one falls under the more generic “damsel in distress” category, for the most part. If you aren’t sure what that is, it’s pretty easy to figure out. Think of the original Super Mario Brothers game- Princess Peach is at the other castle, held captive by Bowzer… only with more jerking off.

Some Quicksand Fetishists simply enjoy mud. Sinking in it, to be exact. There are even maps with good mud sinkholes plotted out for the benefit of other fetishists. This may be for their own enjoyment or to watch someone sink. Specific soils may even play a large role in their fantasy. Yeah, bear with me, it’s kind of unusual…

Stucking, the fetish I wrote about a few weeks ago, is also kinda similar to the quicksand fetish, in that a lot of people are interested in the struggle to get out of the quicksand. Usually, total immersion in the water triggers (or symbolizes) orgasm. However, some guys get off on being the hero and saving the damsel is their main motive. Besides cumming.

Fetish: nasophilia

Like any body part, the nose has its own group of fanboys. And probably fangirls. Fanpeople, if you wanna be a “non-transphobic” dick about it. Whatever, anyways..

Nasophiliacs are sexually attracted to the nose. It could be a certain part, like the nostrils, or that bump that some people have at the tip of their nose. Sexual preferences obviously vary from person to person. Some may want to fingerfuck (or tonguefuck?) the nostrils, while others may just want to lick it or stare at it. Some really like watching the nostrils flare. Others like picking/watching someone pick their nose. Some like big noses, some like small. For some people with a more medical exam fetish, the appeal is having that little light shined up their nose.

Frugal stripper life pro tips

Anyone may find these tips beneficial, not just strippers. Even guys. Wanna know how strippers get super soft, smooth skin without razor burn? How do strippers work when they’re on shark week? Keep reading to find out.

1. Coconut oil and sugar are your friends. Use sugar to exfoliate. Then shave. Then moisturize with melty coconut oil. You can even use coconut oil as shaving cream, but expect a gross razor afterwards. Looking for a good all-in-one exfoliator and moisturizer? Contact me and I’ll sell you my homemade concoction.

2. Extend the life of your razors (for daily vag groomers) by not leaving them in the shower and dipping the blade in isopropyl alcohol after shaving. The alcohol will keep your razor blade from rusting.

3. We dance while on shark week by cutting the string off our tampons. This also works well if you’re wearing a skimpy bikini. Getting it out afterwards is not as bad as it sounds.

4. Reminder: Coconut oil is your friend. Use it as a hair masque, too. Especially if you have curly and/or frizzy hair.

5. Use lotion immediately after getting out of the shower, before your skin is fully dry. It will lock the moisture in.

6. Rub melty coconut or pure vitamin e oil on your junk right after shaving to keep from getting razor burn. Dudes, I imagine this is true for your face, too, but I don’t get coarse hairs on my face, thank god.

7. Use unscented, natural deodorant while you’re working at the club. It keeps you from smelling like BO, but your pheromones will work to your advantage.

8. Don’t use vag spray.. it’s not good for your natural pH, and it smells like grandmas.

9. Get a unique scent. Don’t just douse yourself in Victoria’s Secret PINK body spray.

10. Use cornstarch as a dry shampoo instead of buying the fancy stuff. Also, cornstarch is what they’re selling in those tiny powder shakers they charge $10 for at Target. For the record, corn starch is about $2 for way more product at any grocery store.

11. Don’t buy Crest whitening strips. Mix peroxide and baking soda with toothpaste. Brush with it every day for two weeks. You’ll get the same results for less than $5.

12. You can also use peroxide and baking soda to zap cold sores rather than spending $20 on Abreva, and it works a hell of a lot faster. For those of you that are unfortunate enough to have it in your crotchal region.. try at your own risk.

13. Rub lotion or coconut oil into foot calluses before bed, then put socks on. It’ll soften them a bit.

14. Swap lingerie you don’t like with other strippers/camgirls. On that note, avoid buying outfits from interstate stores. Stick to Ebay, Discount Stripper, or Snaz75.

15. Buy cheap thigh highs. If you’re a dancer, they never last no matter how much you spend.

Fetish: panty fetish

So, maybe I’m wrong, but I’m pretty sure the panty fetish is mostly a guy phenomenon. I’ve met lots of guys in my line of work that have some sort of obsession with panties, whether it’s wearing them, sniffing them, feeling them in their hands, jerking off with them, or just admiring them.

The panty fetish can be related to sissification and feminization when the guy likes to wear them. I’ve met a lot of guys that like to wear panties that are way too small for them. I’m not really sure why that is. Panty fetishists, could you chime in on this one? I think the panty fetish could be a gateway drug to feminization if you have a willing, knowledgeable female partner involved. Chances are, if a guy is willing to wear your panties, he’s probably willing to try on a bra and some frilly outfits and makeup, too. I’m sure some of you guys disagree with me, but hey, I bet I could convince you otherwise if given the proper chance ;) This situation could also be tied in with a Dom/sub relationship if the feminization is used as a way to humiliate the sub.

It can also be linked to a pantyhose fetish, but I’m going to save that for a later blog. Some guys highly favor full back panties, while some prefer lacy thongs. It really varies a lot. I have noticed that a lot of guys really dig shiny panties.

I have to admit, the thought of a guy jerking off and cumming into my panties has always been a massive turn-on for me. I especially love the idea of a guy stealing panties from my underwear drawer, jerking off in them, and then putting them back for me to find. Of course, this behavior would warrant a severe punishment.

If you’d like to see what panties I have for sale, you can check out my worn panty site, Domino’s Panty Drawer. I have tons of different panties for sale, and I’m adding new ones almost every week, so keep checking! To order some, just email me at [email protected] and tell me which ones you’d like. If there is a specific pair that you’ve seen me wear that isn’t listed, just ask. Each pair of panties is worn by me for at least 24 hours before shipping. I vacuum seal them to keep my scent in. I can wear them during ovulation or after sex if you prefer.

Fetish: formalwear fetishism

Suit & Tie Fetishism is a pretty specific fetish that falls under the “uniform fetishism” category. I’ll write more about uniform fetishism as a whole in a later post. Suit & Tie Fetishism is more common among gay guys, but I know plenty of women and straight men that have this fetish, too. There are several blogs that are dedicated to man-on-man suit loving. I think women and straight men are more attuned to posting about their sexual tendencies on Reddit or other social networking sites via text or something. I don’t know. I’m drawing a blank here, but I know I’ve seen people talk about it. I’m not good at this today, apparently.

A la FetLife, a person can be turned on by wearing a suit, seeing another person wear a suit, or just by the thought of formal wear. In terms of wearing it, a lot of times the person wearing it is turned on by the stiffness and constraint of the collar and/or tie. Maybe this has some ties to bondage.

There’s also a related fetish for wedding attire. I’m mainly referring to wedding dresses here, but it also relates to the Suit & Tie fetish in that the guys are wearing tuxedos most of the time. I have to imagine it’s awkward when you go to a wedding and get turned on by having to wear a tux or you see the members of the wedding part wearing them. In that case, keep some tight boxer briefs handy and uptuck. I think whether they want to admit it or not, this fetish extends to some women as well. I’m probably going to be called sexist here, but I think that aside from the most hardcore wedding dress loving crossdressers, women spend waaaay more time looking at bridal magazines and shopping for wedding gowns at bridal stores. Some men (usually men that identify as crossdressers) enjoy wearing them, while other men simply enjoy seeing them on a woman. It may be so specific as to what type of fabrics turn him (or her) on.

How to do anal sex and anal play

This may seem like a really lame and/or stupid topic, but trust me, if there’s one thing I’ve learned in my adventures as a sex worker, it’s that people are phenomenally uneducated when it comes to sex. I’ll break it down for you guys. Since there are people out there that are way more well-versed in anal than I am, I welcome any additions to this post.

While you don’t need any toys to enjoy playing with your asshole, it does heighten the experience. Different toys offer different experiences, so choose whatever best fits your needs. For instance, stainless steel butt plugs are really heavy, which can feel really good if you’re doing double penetration. They also can be heated up or cooled down for added sensation. On the other hand, you can also use a simple plug or a vibrating plug that stimulates your prostate (if you’re a dude).

Before You Start, Here’s What NOT to Do…

1. Above all: Don’t use anything that doesn’t have a flared base. This is why you see x-rays of people that have a lightbulb, dildo, cucumber, or any other phallic objects inside their rectums. Unless you want to be a joke to the nearest on-call radiologist, use only toys meant specifically for anal play. Your asshole is like a vacuum. Remember that, remind yourself of it daily: “My ass is like a Dyson.”

2. Don’t use the wrong lube with your toys. Using the wrong lube can lead to your dildo collection turning into the liquefied sex toy version of Fukushima. Don’t believe me? If the scientific method is something you’re into, check out this sex blogger’s dildo experiment . Toxic sex toys are serious business! PS – it’s always OK to use more lube.

3. Don’t expect a giant toy to fit right away. If it hurts, stop, take a break, and try something smaller.

4. Don’t go ass-to-mouth or ass-to-pussy without cleaning up first, or use a condom for one hole.
What You Need:

1. Lube. If you’re using toys as part of your anal play, make sure the lube you buy is compatible with the material that your toy’s made of. For instance, don’t use a silicone-based lube on a toy made of silicone. This will damage the toy (remember dildo Fukushima?). Use a water-based lube (like KY) on silicone toys. Some people actually use coconut oil as lube, too. This is a great idea for women that are prone to BV and yeast infections, as coconut oil has natural antifungal and antibacterial properties.

2. Enema. Some people douche with an enema prior to anal sex. This is totally up to you.

3. Baby Wipes. Just trust me.

4. A toy (or fingers, if you prefer)

5. A towel (optional, but I prefer it)

6. Soap and hot water, for cleanup.

The Good Part:

For the sake of my sanity, I’m going to write this assuming there are two people involved and one is on the receiving end. For beginners or people that haven’t done anal play in a while, I highly recommend starting small and working your way up. Instead of using a dildo right away, start with a butt plug.

1. Have everything you need within arm’s reach.

2. Lube up both your asshole and a plug.

3. Take a deep breath and relax. Don’t tense or clench. It won’t work if the person is tense or clenching. If you’re clenching, it’s going to hurt.

4. Very slowly and gently start to insert the toy. It may feel weird or uncomfortable, like you’re pooping, but it’ll get better within a few seconds. Pitchers, pay attention to your partner’s cues.

5. Once the receiving partner gets used to the sensation (it takes a few minutes), start gently playing with the toy or gently applying pressure to the perineum (the taint).

5. Switch out toys if you want and go back to step 4.

(My) Ideal Positions:

1. Spooning. I prefer to control the speed and force with which someone fucks me in the ass, and this position makes it easy. Once I start moving my hips faster, that means it’s ok to go a little harder and faster.

2. Lying face down on the stomach. This is nice for the same reasons, and it allows for more sensation. Especially if you want to try double penetration. I prefer to start with a pillow under my hips, a dildo in my pussy, and then ease into anal sex following the steps listed above. Plus, it’s easy to gradually transition into doggystyle if your partner wants it.

3. Cowgirl. This one is easier once you’re warmed up. The receiving partner has most control with speed and force, unless the person on the bottom thrusts up (don’t do that, it can hurt. A lot).

Attention ladies snapchat

As someone that grew up ugly and was bullied to the point of nearly dropping out of middle school (I didn’t, for the record), I take great pride in how far I’ve come. Not just in my appearance, but in terms of what I’ve accomplished. To some, my chosen profession is not a positive. To me, it’s among the best decisions I’ve ever made. Because of this, I don’t take offense when people call me names like “whore” or “slut”. I consider these terms of endearment, and though they weren’t meant to be taken that way, I choose to receive them as compliments. Which brings me to my point…

Ladies, I’m not snapping naked pictures to your boyfriend/husband/fuck buddy/the guy you wish was your boyfriend. Your guy made a conscious decision to follow my public feed. That doesn’t make us friends, it doesn’t make me a homewrecker, nor does it mean that he loves you any less. I didn’t look him up on Facebook and ask for his Snapchat ID. I didn’t actively seek him out. In fact, I don’t respond to the vast majority of messages I receive. I still don’t know who you are when you tell me you’re “Nick’s girlfriend”. Maybe you should tell him how you feel instead of me.

I can imagine it feels really shitty feeling self-conscious about your stretch marks while your boyfriend is getting off looking at Snapchat stories of hotter women. You may pity yourself and bitterly reflect that you were hot before you carried around your boyfriend’s child for nine months, but the truth is, it’s probably your fault. I realize that some guys are abusive assholes that do this type of thing specifically to hurt their women, but for the most part, guys just like to look. And chances are, if you’re too busy making excuses for not being the best you can be (in every way, not just physically), he’s going to be more likely to look around. In other words, get off your lazy ass and go to the gym. Learn to put on makeup. Eat healthy. Can’t afford a gym membership? Go to Target, buy some weights and buy a copy of Fitness magazine. Then do it. Don’t sit around and whine about how you used to be hot and skinny. Or don’t, and shut the fuck up and quit complaining when your boyfriend looks at other girls naked. It’s your choice.

Want your man to want you? Here are some tips on how to accomplish that:

1. Go to the gym, as mentioned. Talk with a trainer.

2. Ask him what he likes sexually without judgment, then be willing to try it. By judgment, I mean no eyerolling, sighs, or responding with “oh.” or “lol”.

3. Quit eating shitty food. The simpler the food, the better. Stop eating so much ice cream.

4. Learn to put on makeup.

5. Give head. Get good at it.

6. Shave often.

7. Shower. Be clean.

8. Actually have sex with him. I don’t care if your libido is low, find a way to make it higher. Look at porn or Ryan Gosling or whatever. Or other girls, if that works for you.

Introducing group shows

Group shows will be done a few times a week. I’ll be doing one daytime/afternoon show and one evening/night show weekly. Shows will be around 30 minutes long (longer if I’m having a lot of fun) and the cost of “admission” is $25. The show will be cancelled if there aren’t at least three people in the group.

Because everyone’s kink is different, the show will be pretty straightforward masturbation (toys, fingers, etc) with some extras depending on the group’s mood. Everyone is free to make requests, but I reserve the right to stay within my (very broad and kinky) comfort zone.

If you’d like to join a group session, please email me and let me know what session you’d like to join. You’ll be able to see the group sessions on www,dominoxxx.com under the “My Schedule” sidebar